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donderdag 7 februari 2008

I wish for you to know
that the love inside you
is my own
placed within you
when you were born of spirit.

It is the defining nature
of your uniqueness
for there is not another you
in which my love is stored
the very same way.

All my creations
are united to me in this matter
and all are therefore joined to one another
in a brotherhood of unique personalities -
each a fragment of the whole
that is me.
You are the exquisite,
irreplaceable,
unduplicated
essence that I know
with greater clarity


than all other beings,
including yourself.


My presence is independent
of time and space,
and just as you cannot limit infinity
you cannot limit my love
for you
despite the conditions
of our illusory separation.


Remember this:


I am not separate from you
but you are independent of me.


My presence is the portrait
of the original you.
If you hold a thought of me,
imbue it with the expression


of your purest love
and your thought
will be mine in that moment.


Speak with me in this same manner
aware that the spiritual content
is the medium of your communique.


In the evolutionary worlds
you will find me

through your Self,


Discover me there.


Discern me there.


Reclaim me there.



It is my transcendence that
makes me seem so distant and secluded,
and it is your fixation on the trappings


of your world
that makes you unaware of my overtures.


This is my overture to you.


Receive it into your deepest heart
and feel me there.


I await you in the unutterable aspirations
of your human soul.

Thnx Frank!

Posted: 11:26:24 PM  
link to this article: http://www.marinasmasters.com/2006/categories/articles/2008/02/07.html#a3799


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O S H O

The role of a therapist is a very delicate and complex affair.

First, the therapist himself suffers from the same problems that he is trying to help others with.
The therapist is only a technician.
He can manage to pretend and to deceive himself that he is a master -- that is the greatest danger in being a therapist. But just a little understanding, and things won't be the same.

First, don't think in terms of helping others. That gives you the idea of being a savior, of being a master -- and from the back door the ego enters again. You become important, you are the center of the group, everybody is looking up to you.

Drop the idea of help. Instead of `help' use the word `sharing'.
You share your insight, whatsoever you have. The participant is not someone who is inferior to you. The therapist and the therapee are both in the same boat; the therapist is just a little more knowledgeable. Be conscious of the fact that your knowledge is borrowed.
Never for a moment forget that whatever you know is still not your experience, and this will help the people who are participating in your group.

Man is a very subtle mechanism. It works on both sides: the therapist starts becoming the master, and rather than helping he is destroying something in the participant, because the participant will also learn only the technique.
There will not be a loving, sharing friendliness, an atmosphere of trust, but "You know more, I know less.... By participating in a few therapy groups I will also know as much as you know."

The participants slowly, slowly start becoming therapists themselves, because there is no degree required -- at least in many countries. In a few countries they have started to outlaw all kinds of unaccepted therapies; only a man who has a university qualification in therapeutics, in psychoanalysis, in psychotherapy will be able to help people in therapy groups.

This is going to happen in almost every country of the world, because therapy has become a business, and people who are unqualified are dominating it. They know the technique, because technique they can learn; by participating in a few groups they know all the techniques, then they can make a concoction of their own. But there is no way of controlling....

But remember: the moment you play the role of a helper, the helped is never going to forgive you. You have hurt his pride, you have hurt his ego. That was not your intention.... your intention was just to inflate your own ego, but this can happen only if you hurt other people's ego. You cannot inflate your ego without hurting others.
Your bigger ego will need more space, and the others have to shrink their space and their personality to exist with you.

From the very beginning an authentic loving person...and I make it an absolutely necessary point that there is nothing more therapeutic than love. Technique can help, but the real miracle happens through love. Love the people who participate in therapy and be one amongst them, with no pretensions of being higher or holier.

Make it clear from the very beginning: "These are the techniques I have learned, and a little bit is my experience. I will give you the techniques, and I will share my experience.
But you are not my disciples; you are just friends in need. I have some understanding, not much, but I can share it with you. Perhaps many of you have their own understanding coming from different areas, different directions. They can also share their experience and make the group richer."

In other words, what I am saying is a totally new concept of therapy. The therapist is only a coordinator. He just tries to make the group more silent, serene; he keeps an eye that nothing goes wrong...more of a guardian than a master.

And you have also to make it clear: "I am also learning while I am trying to share my experience. When I am listening to you, it is not only your problems; they are my problems too. And when I am saying something, I am not only saying it, I am listening also."

Emphatically make it clear that you are nobody special. This has to be done in the beginning of the group, and this has to be carried on as the group goes deeper, exploring. You just remain an elder, who has gone a few steps ahead; otherwise you will not be able to help people. They will learn the technique and they will become therapists on their own. And there are enough fools -- five billion fools -- on the earth; they will find their own followers.

It is a human weakness that when people start looking up to you, you start thinking, "There must be something great in me if people are looking up to me." They are in trouble, they are suffering from human frailties. But you are also human, and to err is absolutely human. Without any condemnation, with great love, help them to open themselves -- and this is possible only if you open yourself.

I have come to know a strange fact: strangers tell each other things that they can never say to people they know. In a railway train you meet somebody; you don't know his name, you don't know where he is going, from where he is coming, and people start sharing. I have been traveling for twenty years non-stop in the whole country, watching a strange phenomenon: that people give their secrets to strangers, because the stranger is not going to exploit it.
Just the next station comes, and the stranger is gone; perhaps you may never see him again. And he is not concerned to destroy your reputation or anything. On the contrary, sharing your secrets, your weaknesses, your vulnerabilities makes others more confident and more loving and more trusting in you. Your trust provokes their trust in you, and when they see you are so innocent and so open and available, they start opening up: it is a chain reaction.

Posted: 9:44:10 AM  
link to this article: http://www.marinasmasters.com/2006/categories/articles/2008/02/07.html#a3789



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